Wondering how to befriend Sebastian in Stardew Valley? Maybe you have plans to make this NPC your eternal in-game partner. Here, you’ll find all the information you need about Sebastian’s preferred gifts, so you can start making friends with him or perhaps even something more.

Sebastian: The Rebellious Loner

Sebastian was first introduced to Stardew Valley as part of developer update #12. He lives with his mother (Robin), stepfather (Demetrius), and half-sister (Maru). He resides in his parent’s basement and generally likes to become deeply absorbed in his work and hobbies. At the beginning of the game’s main story, Sebastian can be a bit distant from the player. At times, he can even become unruly. However, spending time with and giving him the correct presents increases his relationship with the player and gives more insight into his character.

Stardew Valley Sebastian Gifts Guide

Stardew Valley players can give Sebastian up to two gifts per week and an additional instance on his birthday on Winter 10. Sebastian will react differently depending on the gift he receives.

• Love: “I really love this. How did you know?”
• Like: “Thanks, I like this.”
• Neutral: “…thanks.”
• Dislike: “…?”
• Hate: “…I hate this.”

Loved Gifts

• Frozen Tear
• Obsidian
• Pumpkin Soup
• Sashimi
• Void Egg

Liked Gifts

• Flounder
• Quartz

Neutral Gifts

• All fruit except the Salmonberry and Fruit Tree Fruit
• All fish except Carp, Flounder, and Snail
• All Milk

Disliked Gifts

• Chanterelle
• Common Mushroom
• Daffodil
• Dandelion
• Ginger
• Hazelnut
• Holly
• Leek
• Magma Cap
• Morel
• Purple Mushroom
• Salmonberry
• Snow Yam
• Wild Horseradish
• Winter Root

Hated Gifts

• Clay
• Complete Breakfast
• Farmer’s Lunch
• Omelet
• Pina Colada
• All Eggs except Void Egg
• All artisan goods except Coffee, Oil, and Green Tea

Heart Events

Attempting to befriend Sebastian for the long term gives players access to his Heart Events. These instances occur when the NPC’s relationship meter is at two, four, six, eight, ten, and fourteen hearts. Note that the fourteen-heart event is only accessible after marrying him.

Two-Heart Event

Enter Sebastian’s room when he’s inside. If the event triggers, you’ll find him in front of his computer. Then, he’ll give you the option to either stay or leave. At this point, it doesn’t matter what choice you select because Sebastian will quickly stand up and apologize for the wait. He’ll then ask you a series of questions. However, your answers to these queries won’t positively or negatively affect your relationship with him.

Four-Heart Event

Find Sebastian in The Mountain biome between 11 am and 5 pm. If the event triggers, you’ll see him working on a motorcycle at his house. Finishing this event won’t positively or negatively affect your relationship with him.

Six-Heart Event

Enter Sebastian’s room again, and make sure he’s inside. An event should trigger wherein he’s playing a game with Sam. He invites you to sit down and play the role-playing game. Continue the event by selecting your preferred choices. None of the answers will positively or negatively affect your relationship with Sebastian. However, you can achieve a perfect event score if you select the options that positively affect Sebastian.

Eight-Heart Event

Head to the beach on a rainy day between 12 pm and 11 pm. Go to the edge of the boardwalk, and the event should trigger. Watch the event unfold until the end.

Ten-Heart Event

Travel to The Mountain between 8 pm and 12 am. Sebastian should be outside his house, and he invites you for a ride on his motorcycle. He’ll then confess his true feelings for you during this instance.